The mating press position is a sexual stance where one partner lies on their back with legs elevated and bent toward their chest, while the other partner positions themselves on top, facing them directly. The top partner typically bears most of their weight, pressing down closely. This position is widely discussed for its intimacy and potential for deeper penetration. The VB Health medical experts look into the science behind this popular position.
What Is The Mating Press Position?
Originating from informal internet discussions and evolving into a popular topic within sex-positive communities, the mating press has sparked interest due to its explicit nature and popularity in adult media. While less frequently addressed in scientific literature compared to more conventional sexual positions, discussions online have elevated awareness and curiosity, prompting health professionals to examine its implications for sexual health and satisfaction.
The term "mating press" (Japanese: 種付けプレス, Tanetsuke Puresu) was coined by Japanese hentai artist Keita Takatsu in November 2013. He introduced it in his illustrations on platforms like Pixiv and Twitter, describing it as a position where the male partner presses down on the female partner, facilitating deep penetration. This depiction gained popularity within hentai and Rule 34 communities throughout the 2010s, eventually spreading to Western audiences via fan art and memes in the early 2020s.
While the specific term is relatively recent, the physical configuration of the mating press resembles variations of the missionary position, which has been practiced across cultures for centuries. Historically, such face-to-face positions have been associated with intimacy and emotional connection. The mating press distinguishes itself by emphasizing deeper penetration and a more dominant posture from the penetrating partner.
Potential Benefits for Men’s Health
Medical experts acknowledge that sexual positions, including the mating press, may influence sexual health positively by increasing intimacy, psychological satisfaction, and physical stimulation. Deep penetration facilitated by this position could potentially enhance sexual pleasure and intimacy. A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that positions allowing deeper penetration, like the mating press, may improve sexual satisfaction in men experiencing mild erectile dysfunction by increasing psychological arousal and physical stimulation (JSM, 2021). Some men claim that the position helps them increase semen volume during orgasm. Others report the position allows them to cum faster.
Risks & Safety Considerations
Despite potential benefits, this position carries specific risks. The depth and angle of penetration might cause discomfort or pain for some partners, particularly if vigorous thrusting occurs without adequate communication and lubrication. Positions involving significant weight bearing and deep penetration pose potential risks for physical injury, including back strain, muscle cramps, or genital trauma. According to a report by the International Society for Sexual Medicine, positions involving elevated legs or extreme angles require careful execution to avoid injuries (ISSM, 2020). That said, these potential health issues are rare, and, in general, can be avoided by regular exercise.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is the mating press suitable for pregnancy? A: While deeper penetration positions are sometimes suggested to aid conception by facilitating sperm placement closer to the cervix, there is no scientific evidence strongly supporting any specific sexual position for enhancing fertility (3).
Q: Can the mating press increase intimacy between partners? A: Yes, many couples report increased intimacy due to the face-to-face closeness and intense physical connection this position offers. The position can be used for both fast and vigorous sex, or slow edging.
Q: Is the mating press suitable for everyone? A: Not necessarily. It requires flexibility and strength from both partners and may not be suitable for those with back problems, previous spinal surgery, limited mobility, or certain health conditions. For the top person it requires some strength and balance to thrust.
Practical Tips & Preparations
To safely explore the mating press position, couples should prepare by:
- Engaging in adequate foreplay to ensure proper arousal and natural lubrication.
- Using additional lubrication to minimize discomfort.
- Communicating clearly throughout to ensure both partners feel comfortable and safe.
- Starting gently and adjusting angles and depth based on mutual comfort.
- Incorporating pillows or cushions beneath the partner lying down to support the back and elevate hips comfortably.
Variations & Alternatives
For those who find the traditional mating press challenging or uncomfortable, variations can offer similar benefits:
- Modified Missionary: Elevating only slightly rather than fully pressing legs to chest.
- Butterfly Position: Partner lies back at the edge of a bed or surface, legs relaxed or gently elevated, offering similar penetration depth with less strain.
- Spooning Position: Provides intimacy and depth without intense pressure or required flexibility.
For those that prefer to flip over, the Speed Bump Sex Position can be a great alternative for deeper penetration.