What is BDSM?
BDSM is an umbrella term encompassing a variety of erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism.
It is not a singular sexual interest but a wide range of various sexual interests falling under its scope.
Why is BDSM Practiced?
Exploration of Power Dynamics and Roles
BDSM allows individuals to explore different roles and power dynamics in a controlled, consensual environment. This exploration can provide a unique psychological space that encourages self-discovery and could be a source of excitement and satisfaction for some.
Emotional and Psychological Satisfaction
Aside from the physical pleasure, many participants in BDSM find emotional and psychological satisfaction in the activities. They can facilitate deep emotional connections, intimacy, and trust between partners.
How is Consent Ensured in BDSM?
Essential Role of Consent
Consent plays an essential role in BDSM, separating it from abuse or assault.
Participants should explicitly agree to what will occur in any scene, with discussions about boundaries, safe words, and expectations happening beforehand.
Ongoing Communication
Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. During a scene, participants should regularly check in with one another to ensure continued consent and comfort.
If anyone feels uncomfortable, a scene should be stopped immediately.
